The Human Rights Campaign (HRC) just called and asked me to renew my membership. Sadly, I had to tell the nice lady I could not bring myself to renew this year.
She had a script about the importance of the mid-term congressional elections coming up in November, yadda-yadda-yadda. But when she got to Colin Powell supporting the repeal of DADT, I had to stop her. I let her know I didn't appreciate all the
cover HRC had been giving the Obama Administration over LGBT issues, and was tired of the glad handing. I told her because I lived in the trenches in Oklahoma fighting for gay rights, I expected our gay leaders in Washington, DC not to participate in any more White House sponsored cocktail parties until we actually saw
results on their promises, including DADT, DOMA and ENDA.
She was very nice, agreed with me and thanked me for all the work I was doing after I told her how I was a LGBT community activist and very active in progressive politics in Oklahoma. Unfortunately, she said someone told her she had to "wrap up the call" and it was over. Before she hung up, I told her I looked forward to the day I could again be a member of HRC, and when I saw the changes I expected from the leaders of our organizations, which was to play political hardball and stop simply working for access and celebrity status, then I would gladly give again.
I expect organizations like HRC to
push for change instead of just waiting for society to finally make it happen. I'm exhausted from being treated like a second class citizen in my own country, and I won't support anyone, or any group, who enables that status simply because they are afraid that if they speak up, if they fight back, if they hold Democrats to their promises
THIS YEAR, then they may lose their precious access.
Lose the cocktail parties, get tough and fight, HRC, and I might consider supporting you again. I can't overstate how disappointed I am with HRC because, in the past, they seemed to be a little more hard nosed in the fight for our rights. Someone needs to wake up in that group and realize that this isn't an inside the beltway social game, and the fight they should be engaged in affects real LGBT people in the most conservative areas of our country, like Oklahoma, where I live. Hob-knobbing at White House social events, while not pushing the White House to repeal DADT this year, does nothing for that sailor or Army soldier who has to hide his or her gay family for fear of being discharged under "Don't Ask Don't Tell."
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